It may be said that NLP is about
identifying excellence through an exploration of patterns, and
then devising means for others to use those patterns to achieve
similar results.
What is NLP?
by: Roger Ellerton
As a certified NLP trainer, I am often asked, “What is
NLP?”
The term NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming and was
coined in the early seventies by John Grinder, an assistant
professor of linguistics at the University of California, Santa
Cruz, and Richard Bandler, a student of psychology at the
university. They began their work by studying Fritz Perls, a
psychotherapist and originator of the Gestalt school of
therapy, Virginia Satir, a well-known family therapist and
Milton Erickson, a world-famous hypnotherapist. Their intention
was to model outstanding therapists and identify patterns in
order that other practitioners could use these patterns to
generate similar results. It may be said that NLP is about
identifying excellence through an exploration of patterns, and
then devising means for others to use those patterns to achieve
similar results.
NLP also draws on earlier work, such as Ivan Pavlov’s
conditioned reflexes (1904). In NLP this is called anchoring.
NLP takes theoretical results developed by others and makes
them available to you and me so we can improve our lives and
well-being.
NLP is more than just techniques. It is a curiosity about
how people who are high achievers accomplish what they actually
set out to do. It is also a methodology that assists you in
discovering those thinking and communication patterns that
prevent you from being successful and shows you how to achieve
the results of successful people. That is, NLP is a process of
discovering the patterns of excellence of experts, and it makes
these effective ways of thinking and communicating available
for others to use for their own benefit or to assist
others.
NLP had its origins in therapy and is now applied in all
areas of human endeavor – education, health, sports, business
and, perhaps most importantly, interpersonal relations.
Let us break down and analyze the terms neuro-linguistic
programming.
Neuro refers to your neurology – sense organs. It is about
how you absorb information. For example, you use your eyes to
see things in your world. You also experience or perceive
events through your other senses: aural (hearing), kinesthetic
(tactile touch or emotional feeling), gustatory (taste) and
olfactory (smell).
Linguistic refers to the language – pictures, sounds,
feelings (kinesthetic), tastes, smells and words – that you use
to remember and make sense of a particular experience (or to
forecast a future experience). For example, can you recall your
breakfast this morning? When you remember having breakfast, can
you see a picture in your mind, or can you hear sounds (perhaps
a radio was on or you were engaged in a discussion with your
family)? What about tastes and smells? And how were you feeling
– happy, tired, excited?
Think about a significant event in your near future. Do you
envision yourself being successful? Or failing? The pictures,
sounds, feelings, tastes, smells and words that you use to
describe future experiences have a bearing on what actually
happens. You do create your own reality!
Programming refers to your habits, patterns, programs and
strategies. If it is a workday, do you follow a particular
routine as you get ready for work? Perhaps you like to lie in
bed an extra five minutes after the alarm goes off. Do you
shower or bathe right away or have breakfast first? If you take
time to look at what you do, I am certain you will see a
pattern that you follow in getting ready for work. If for some
reason you do not follow that pattern, do you find yourself
feeling that something is missing?
You have patterns, habits, strategies and programs for
everything you do. Some of these patterns serve you, but others
do not – resulting in unwanted outcomes. You may be fully aware
of some of your patterns. You may become aware of others only
when someone else brings them to your attention. And you may
choose to quickly forget about these patterns because you want
to avoid addressing that part of your life. And there are still
other patterns that you are not aware of at all, yet they
continue to influence how you look after yourself, communicate
with others and perform your daily tasks. If the patterns serve
you – that is, generate positive results in your life – great!
However, if you find that some patterns do not serve you, would
it not be useful to identify those patterns and to change them
so they work to your advantage?
Question: Who put your patterns, habits, strategies and
programs in place? Of course, you did. So who can change them?
Only you. But first, you must become aware that you run these
patterns. This is one of the biggest benefits of NLP – becoming
aware of the patterns, habits, strategies and programs that you
have been running unconsciously and then using NLP techniques
to change them in order to achieve the outcomes you desire.
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About The Author
Roger Ellerton is a certified NLP trainer,
certified management consultant and the founder
and managing partner of Renewal
Technologies.
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